APTB Guidelines
WE OPERATE BY FIRST PRINCIPLES
I’ve established these guidelines to set boundaries for our children, aiming to minimise interference for their benefit. I understand that granting this kind of freedom can be challenging, as our conditioned beliefs to intervene often arise, even with good intentions or protective motives. These guidelines are designed to safeguard our children’s inherent right to self-determination. However, these are by no means rules, especially not for your home but rather for communal activities. They are more like having them as default, knowing that from time to time, we may choose to do otherwise.
I believe that when we start clearing our conditioning, we will naturally interfere less and act more like these guidelines' are set up.
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Kids need love the most when they deserve it the least
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Kids breaking the rules
Adults never punish children. We let the natural consequences be the biggest learning take-away from their action.
Adults never punish children. We let the natural consequences be the biggest learning take-away from their action.
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A kid experiencing big emotions
Managing emotions, whether it's frustration, sadness, anger, worry, or fear.
Managing emotions, whether it's frustration, sadness, anger, worry, or fear.
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How to deal with exclusion
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How to deal with our fears of children getting hurt physically
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